I know what each time you raide int and end you get immediate feedback and can see those categories rising but it get sa little shady with will/vit, so im wondering if there is a post that shows at what number, ie 55 willpower, can you expect what kind of damage, and if 55 does so and so damage, what does 56 do? Or is the next damage increase at say 60? The same for vit and regen. Thanks

This should help:
http://www.shadowcities.com/forum/topic/517/?page=1#post-3210

Each ap to willpower adds an average of +2 damage.

OOOOOOOOO thank you both! thats exactly what I was looking for